My baby sister (who is a grown adult) came out as bisexual this week on Facebook. She announced it by showing off her Pride swag from Starbucks.
I'm simultaneously proud of her and secretly contemplating re-entering the cesspool of Facebook to destroy anyone who even looks at her wrong. She told me to stop being so overbearingly maternal towards her. She's 27. I'm trying, but I can't help it. She'll always be the Rugrat I fed macaroni and cheese to because no one else was going to do it.
Part of why she feels safe enough to do this now is because she's in a stable environment, surrounded by people who love her unconditionally.
That's what every person deserves. This is what any God worth worshiping expects us all to be.
You don't know how to respond when someone comes out to you, especially in your family?
Love them first. Love them always. Love them forever.
You don't want to feel conflicted about choosing that reaction for the people who matter to you when they come out?
Then don't.
It's that simple. Don't let anyone else come between you and interfere with that choice. That's not their place. It will never be their place.
The Church's appropriate place in this situation is to teach me how to love her the way she needs me to right now, the way Jesus does.
That's how they can be supportive of the families God has ordained. Not abuse, condemnation, criticism, or rejection.
Anyone telling you to reject or condemn the people you love because of sexual orientation is not your friend. They don't care about you. They care about themselves and what other people think of them.
They'd turn on you for a Klondike bar. Mark my words.
Anyway. I had rainbows trapped inside of me and had to get them out, or I was gonna explode and get them everywhere.
🌈Happy Pride!🏳️🌈
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