Brad Wilcox has been alive long enough to know better than to say the words that (update: repeatedly) came out of his mouth.
So has his wife, Debi Wilcox, who posted these comments defending the talks on Facebook. To my knowledge, she has not yet apologized.
They aren't doing better because they haven't ever taken the time to confront and dismantle their own racism, and it shows.
I won't say it's impossible to be white and not racist in America. But it's certainly impossible if you've never taken the time to confront, reflect, reject, and dismantle attitudes that we all passively absorb throughout our lives.
If you've never put any effort into not being racist, then it's not for you to decide whether anything you say, think, or do is racist or not. You wouldn't know. You've never taken the time to examine your own soul through that lens.
The problem with that omission is that God will not make that same mistake.
Let Brother and Sister Wilcox be the object lessons for why you don't want to wait until too late in life to start making those efforts.
